Glitch (Part 3 of 6) Those Random Ideas In Your Head, Are They Yours Or Are You Under Guidance Control

You control your life, you make your own decisions, you are the master of your destiny, you are responsible for what you do……. but are you?

We’ve learned that reality is reusing our faces in Part 1, then we learned that reality is reusing people Part 2, but now we are going to look into your daily life. Are you living for yourself or are you always in the right place, at the right time, saying the right thing for the bigger picture?

You searched and found your soul mate… right?

Relationships are hard and finding the right person takes time, some skill and a lot of luck. You go out and meet people, start conversations, find a common interest, and hope for chemistry. It’s all random.

That is unless the Matrix is real. If it is, then you are going to be with someone no matter what happens, and it was always going to be that way no matter what you did.

Alex and Donna Voutsinas

They came from different countries and fell in love at work.

Days before their wedding, Mr. Voutsinas was looking through his fiancée’s childhood photos and was shocked to see his father pushing his younger self in the rear of a photo at Disney World while his soon to be wife, then age five, posed in the foreground.

If you look closely you can see the father is even looking right at the camera. Don’t forget that these two families were living in different countries, so the timing is off the scale. Think about how many moving parts of a person’s life have to line up to make this a reality.

Aimee Maiden and Nick Wheeler

Two people who found each other and fell in love and just before their wedding, the couple went to Wheeler’s grandparents’ house and flipped through a family photo album. They come across a photo of Nick as a child with his family on a beach in Cornwall. To their astonishment, they spotted Aimee with her family in the background. The photo was taken years before they met.

(again, looking right at the camera)


The couple was married about a minute walk from where the photo was taken.

There is only one you… right?

The number of variables that make you who you are is almost beyond comprehension. Your name, your parent’s names, your birthday, who you marry, where you live, and the list goes on past the moon. What would it take to force the world to duplicate a life with so many variables?

I don’t know the answer for your life but for a virtual world, it only takes copy, paste and hit enter.

Patricia Ann Campbell

A computer error gave two women in America the same social security number. When the two women were brought together to rectify the mistake they discovered the following:

  • They had both been given the same name by separate parents
  • Both of their fathers were called Robert Campbell
  • Both had the same birthday 13th March 1941
  • Both married military men in the year 1959
  • Both had two children aged 19 and 21
  • Both had worked as book-keepers
  • They both had an interest in oil painting
  • Both had studied cosmetics

Jim L. and Jim S.

Two genetically identical twins that were separated at birth and then reunited at age 39. The twin boys were adopted by different families and unaware of each other’s existence.

  • Both married women named Linda
    • Both Divorced
  • Both re-married women named Betty
  • Both had been christened James by their adoptive parents
  • Both had sons who:
    • one was named James Alan
    • the other was named James Allan
  • Both owned dogs which they named Toy

Laura Buxton and the Balloon

Laura Buxton, from Staffordshire, England, released a balloon with her name and address on it, which floated 140 miles and was then found and returned to the wrong house where there also lived a girl named Laura Buxton.

  • Both had the same name
  • Both were the same height
  • Both had the same build
  • Both had the same eye color
  • Both were fair-haired
  • Both had grey rabbits
  • Both had guinea pigs (which were of the same color with similar markings)
  • Both had a three-year-old black Labrador

Death is a random event… right?

People say that there are only two constants, “death and taxes”, but in a virtual world is this still true or is there a plan in place for even death?

Mary Ashford and Barbara Forrest are two young women separated by 157 years of time but joined together by the same murder.

  • Both 20 years old
  • Both share the same birthday
  • Both were at a dance before they were murdered


  • Both last seen, killed and found on May 27
    • 157 Years between each murder
      • May 27, 1817
      • May 27, 1974
  • Both found in Pype Hayes Park 300 yards apart in the village of Erdington
  • Both raped and strangled
  • Both had a man named Thornton tried for the murder
  • Both men were acquitted
    • Abraham Thornton
    • Michael Ian Thornton
  • Both murders remain unsolved

Witnesses stated that both women, Ashford and Forrest, spoke of feeling a sense of dread in the days before their deaths.

Lorry VS The Twins

Seventy-year-old twin brothers died within hours of one another after separate accidents on the same road in northern Finland.

The first of the twins died when he was hit by a lorry while riding his bike in Raahe, 600 kilometers north of the capital, Helsinki.


About two hours later, his brother crossed the same road on his bicycle and was also hit and killed by a lorry.

He died just 1.5km from the spot where his brother was killed.

Police in Raahe stated that it was unlikely the second man knew that his brother had already been killed, as they had not yet informed the family of the accident.

Where does that leave us?

We live in a world that doesn’t play by the rules we think are in place. A world that defies the laws of probability and like all things, it does it for a reason. When you have evidence of what’s really going on, you have an opportunity to better understand where you are.

So, there you have it, intentional behavior within the fabric of our reality that is not easily dismissed. You decide if this is a coincidence or a glitch in the Matrix. Each post in this six-part series is going to push what you believe to the limit so be ready.

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  1. Amazing!

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  2. Q: Am i living for myself or am i always in the right place, at the right time, saying the right thing for the bigger picture?
    A: I don’t know. I hope I am not just living for myself. I hope I am always in the right place, at the right time, saying the right thing for the best reason that is congruent with the bigger picture.

    Q: Do i
    control my life
    make my own decisions,
    Am i the master of my destiny,
    Am i responsible for what i do……. 

    A: I don’t know. 
    I accept that the Matrix is real.  I think it goes by other names. I think we are connecting through the matrix. I’m thinking about what Marshall Mcluhan said: ‘the medium is the message’.  Thus the communication we have is made possible by using the Internet as the big picture and getting down to the context of wordpress as 2ND degree of connection, 3Rd degree of connection being your blog.

    Q: do We live in a world that doesn’t play by the rules we think are in place?
    A: yes. At least I think so.
    Q: Do i honestly define my understanding of A world that defies the laws of probability and like all things, it does it for a reason.
    A: yes. I think so.
    Q: is it true that When i have evidence of what’s really going on, i have an opportunity to better understand where I am (regarding my place/task in the ‘big picture).
    A: yes.furthermore I think I can make better choices with the opportunity.

    I agree with you: “intentional behavior within the fabric of our reality… is not easily dismissed…”
    I think my survival & recovery depend on my intentions to do self-care & make the best choices about individual ppl & communities i am involved with.  Opportunities to learn, grow & expand my consciousness are exceedingly precious to me now. At age 66 I want to experience peace & do as much good for those in my immediate sphere of influence as my gifts & time will allow me to. I am always looking for teachers and good role models to lend me their knowledge & Tell me their stories about how they survive this life & maintain a good conscience toward everyone.

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    • I think you’re right, we have to make the right choices about who we interact with and what communities we involve ourselves in. I would also add that we keep an eye on behavior within them that we see is representative of what we know to be repeating circumstances.

      I have become so aware of behavioral traits, whether because of nature or a matrix, that I now have a much better grasp of my conscious state. Being aware that people are behaving in a way that leads to a known outcome is a huge advantage at every level. I am not emotionally bonded to situations now that I know I don’t control and whose outcome is predictable.

      Even my own thoughts are becoming predictable, to the point that I can hear the thought and know what the next few days could bring.

      It’s like going from being in a story to writing it.

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  3. Interesting stuff. Not sure what to think about it. Very strange.

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  4. That’s bizarre. My wife and I have some very interesting coincidences in our childhood as well. She’s from Panama but visited the US frequently…to my home town. The friends they visited were my friends, although never knew that. We had vacationed up at a mountain resort in Washington at the same time. I finally met her at the hospital during work. I was a medic and she worked in the ER. She was a familiar face. We hit it off right away. There are some others as well. Great piece Lander!

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  5. If there is a rule to prove, I am probably the exception. I cannot explain my life and how I live it in a short space, but so far I have met and been in love with at least 5 “soul mates,” none of whom have been at all similar in looks, personality, profession, or other usual markers. The only similarity was the depth of the connection I felt with each of them.
    If there was a Matrix it would have had a hard time keeping track of me. Until recently, as I grow older, I used to up and leave a “home” on a moment’s decision, seldom knowing where I was going next until I got there. I still live on the edge of society, though with the internet I am more trackable now than I ever was in my earlier life. It would surprise me to no end to find out I have a doppelganger in more than looks, I have changed who I am so greatly in my 69 years, to the point when I do run into my siblings they never know who I will be each time we get together. All these changes have been self-directed. On top of all this, I have so many structural anomalies in my body doctors often wonder if I am even human. So do I!

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  6. I sit and and ponder on this all the time. I remember watching a show about separated twins years ago and it was like they were all living parallel lives – when they gain weight, when and what they got sick with, the name of their spouse, their careers, the names they picked for their kids. It was extraordinary. Sometimes I wonder if in another dimension we aren’t faced with a massive universal library and we pick a book and a character that we want to play. Each character has perimeter of non variables that can’t be adjusted but there is a degree of free will as well. I wonder why I picked me – this setting, this life. All so interesting. Love this post.

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