I hear this often from my fellow theist, as they talk about what’s a choice and what’s not a choice, but from a bible perspective this was answered a long time ago.
John 1:3 All things were made by him; and without him was not any thing made that was made.
Colossians 1:17 And he is before all things, and by him all things consist.
Matthew 19:12 For there are eunuchs who were born that way, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by others—and there are those who choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it.”
Exodus 4:11 The Lord said to him, “Who gave human beings their mouths? Who makes them deaf or mute? Who gives them sight or makes them blind? Is it not I, the Lord?
1 Timothy 4:4 For everything God created is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving,
What was made?
Some people are born with both male and female sexual organs, they are called hermaphrodites. A person born with both ovaries and testicles and has both male and female sex organs.
In 5-alpha reductase deficiency (5-ARD), androgen levels are normal but an enzyme necessary for male genital development is missing; these individuals may appear to be female and may be raised as girls, but at puberty they develop masculine secondary sex characteristics.
A female pseudohermaphrodite – a genetic female but has male external sex organs.
A male pseudohermaphrodite – a genetic male but with external sex organs that fail to develop properly, resulting in female or male/female physical characteristics.
Intrauterine hormonal effects. In congenital adrenal hyperplasia (CAH), a female fetus (XX) has high levels of adrenal hormone and is born looking like a boy.
In androgen insensitivity syndrome (AIS), a male fetus is unresponsive to androgens and is born looking like a girl.
This question has also been answered from a science perspective.
Biologists have documented homosexual behavior in more than 450 species proving that same-sex behavior is not an unnatural choice, and may in fact play a vital role within populations. Numerous studies have established that sex is not just male or female. Rather, it is a continuum that emerges from a beings genetic makeup.
“’Teacher,’ his disciples asked him, ‘why was this man born blind? Was it a result of his own sins or those of his parents?’ ‘It was not because of his sins or his parents’ sins,’ Jesus answered. ‘He was born blind so the power of God could be seen in him’” (John 9:2-3).
Stop hating on individuals for not being born like you, it’s cowardly, instead be bold and tell God directly how you feel.
Everyone is their own person, a wonderful and beautiful being. Leave them alone and let them live their lives in peace.